When Small Talk Isn’t So Small After All

The vets staying at the Veterans Hospital in town hang out at the local strip mall. We see them every time we stop for milk and a five dollar bunch of flowers. Often, there will be one or two vets smoking on the corner, leaning heavy into a cane or crutch. They call to one another across donuts and … [continue]

Fame Doesn’t Satisfy the Soul’s Hunger

I read an article recently in which a handful of famous actors and musicians shared their thoughts on fame and life in the public eye. Overwhelmingly, they saw fame as a curse, resulting in a lifestyle they never would have chosen for themselves had they calculated the cost. In most cases fame cost … [continue]

When Our Weakness Becomes A Strength

A few years ago, I joined my daughter's class for a school field trip to Thomas Edison's former laboratory here in New Jersey. The word laboratory sounds very clinical and boring, but in reality, it's a large warehouse of a building, full of rooms fitted with dark wood paneled walls or heavy … [continue]

On Cultivating Gentleness

I noticed it in the way she smoothed the hair from Kaitlyn’s face. Her fingertips slipped over the sheen of sweat and tucked the girl’s damp curls away from her contorted features. She touched her child’s body with a gentleness I couldn’t summon after two years of being her daughter’s registered … [continue]

Five Steps to Living More Creatively

This one's for the artists, the magic-makers, the wannabes. It's for the closet creatives, the outsiders, the daydream believers. This one is for you, the one with the pocket full of treasures stored up with nowhere to empty them. And it's for you with the questions and the hollowed out well that … [continue]